I explain the background to this here:
But frankly, seeing this set sitting in my drafts folder makes me think that it deserves its own post.
She’s so tiny!! WHY IS NO ONE HOLDING THIS GIRL AFTER?!? WTHF!
I love when people decide they know what’s best for someone without knowing a single thing about them or these photographs.
You’re doing it wrong.
notice the jeans and leg she is holding on to, she is being held in a form just saying. Sometimes that is all that’s needed
There is also a sequence to things that isn’t always clear due to the medium and the general nature of documenting one’s sexy times. This was a long, severe, restrained spanking - Snow was in a rough shape by the end of it. And of course she got some immediate aftercare after it was over, even if I never got around to giffing it until now.
This is why by the time that these pics were taken she is very much back down to earth and you can see her smiling in the photos, after we untie her and arrange the implements for a little photo-shoot. And I think we cuddled some more afterwards too - just because I can’t take good photos of that activity doesn’t mean that it doesn’t happen.
What is surely one of the longest 14 minutes of her life comes to an end. Such a trooper.
At this time I invite you to revisit the first few posts in this set - I can’t be the only one who loves those moments when tears turn into smiles.
She got the remainder without restraints, while sitting on her hands. I went a little easier on her, but it was still very tough to take, and she did a great job <3
Snow was having such a tough time during the last set that I untied her and just let her bawl into my shirt for a little while. After calming down a little, she informed me that she was ready for the rest of it.
I came back to the flogger for the last set - and made sure that she got the message. Snow had a really hard time with this one.
"Do you deserve this?"
I want to ask about the last set with nipple flogging, what was your safe "word" since Snow was gagged and her hands were behind her where you wouldn't see a Vulcan salute. In the after pics it seemed her wrists had been restrained too. I'm asking out of true interest. I want intense play that pushes my boundaries but my someone is worried about going too far. I know you have experience with each other and complete trust but I assume with something you know terrifies her there was something.
Astute observation. Yes, playing how we did voids our usual “live long and prosper” safeword, and is definitely something that only works because we’ve been together for as long as we have. But she is not totally incommunicado either - I’m watching her body language very closely and listening to her tones. In addition, the gag secured quite loosely if she needs to spit it out - this is also important because Snow gets very stuffy when she cries and this is not a breathable gag.
Ironically being gagged keeps her from being able to go completely quiet on me, and she is generally a lot more vocal. In some ways, I have an easier time gauging her state of mind in sessions like this than some of our typical scenes.
A direct example - in this short bit she makes it obvious to me that the strap just didn’t feel right, and avoids any further encounters with it.
Worries about going too far should be familiar to any good dom. At this point me and Snow have pretty solid communication and I have a good idea of when to push, and when to back off. I’m sure that with time you and your someone will also have the confidence and experience to push a bit deeper, but there is no need to rush these things. The top’s comfort zone is just as important as the bottom’s, and both take some time to build up.
At this point Snow is in tears and is just about terrified of the whip. Her nipples are incredibly sensitive, and each rubber strand of the flogger goes down to a sharp little tip that bites deep.
I wanted to revisit some old gifs (because they’re epic) to see if my gif-making skills have improved. I rather like the new versions, but you’re more than welcome to go back and compare.
What is worse than a 2x2 rhythm with a 2 second period? 4x4 at less than 3. I was wincing when I made that first gif.
And then it was all over. I believe I was humped somewhere in there. <3
This went on for about three and a half minutes before I switched to a different rhythm. Does everyone know that old Einstein joke about relativity? Snow took it like a real trooper - I collected the wriggliest bits in this post, but by and large she was very well behaved.
The last gif is about real-time - doesn’t have the same sense of the impact, but you get a clear idea of the pace (and a demonstration of what a well timed sit-spot stroke can do to a spankee’s composure).
After the caning interlude we moved into the finishing stretch - a long hard bath brushing. Right off the bat, there was too much squirming for my tastes.
Snow’s thighs are so very sensitive - the pain just keeps going. That’s why we do her “extra” strokes there. She rarely needs more than one.
But she did acclimate - and when she started taking the strap this well I knew it was time to move to something else.